WOMAN DERSEVER TO BE RESPECTED IN THE SOCIETY
WOMEN DESERVE TO BE RESPECTED IN THE SOCIETY
BY :. BAMIDELE AYOBAMI LUMAN
*TALKING PEN*
The creator of body and soul has blessed us with a life partner which is supposed to be cared for and pampered like a baby.
Are women in the society being catered for and do men of nowadays show them love ?
Women suppose to serve as torch which all men use in lightening their way when darkness occurs.
Studies has shown that most women in the society lose their respect and dignity when they get married.
Most women of nowadays remain in a marriage for the sake of protecting the future and life of their offsprings.
In some marriages, both husband and wife have not fully enjoyed their marriage even for a second. What's the essence of a relationship you don't show love and care to each other? Of what use is a marriage where peace doesn't reign in the family? Such is a great calamity that has befallen many relationships today.
On a good day, you decided to have her as your wife, to build a home with you and care for your children. When she has not given you an answer to what you want from her, you promised her a brighter future. You swore that your love for her is for better for worse but most men forget all this after marriage.
When you marry her for the sake of beauty, beauty will one day fade. It's love that is required to make a happy home. Let your children be proud of you as a father. Let him proudly say he was fortunate to be happily raised by the best dad in the world like Messi and Ronaldo, winning all the trophies, making victory and representing their country well in any football league .
In our society, women are to be handled with care. The society should know that women are examples of good products and packages.
The question is "Are they handled well in our society of today?" She's your wife, to whom you suppose to be like a life support machine; whom you should respect and protect her dignity.
Are you playing your role in the family as a good husband?
You beat her whenever she wrongs you and you expect her to love you more.
Every woman deserves to have a right in every marriage. They are Nation Builders and Bricklayers that build the home. They are interior and exterior designers that design the future of a child, yet they are being maltreated like a slave. Some have even been turned to housemaids (not house wives anymore).
Most women have been in abusive marriages for a very long time; they are not happily married.
Some marital problems are due to lack of trust and understanding between the couples.
It's high time for ladies to knew their men better before getting married to them. Try to know a man very well before choosing him as your husband.
Don't love him because of his wealth. Instead, go into relationship because you want him to stay with you forever.
Not all wealthy homes are peaceful. Every beauty is subjected to fade as every glittering iron is subjected to rust.
Most men of nowadays go into relationships because of beauty; without considering her behavior and personality which is very bad.
However, let us overlook each other's shortcomings because there is no perfect relationship. "I am sorry" is a simple statement which rebuilds a relationship.
Couples should live as one. They should also live a life of good example for their children. They should have absolute support for each other; respect each other's decisions and opinions.
If all this is done, it will definitely put an end to issues surrounding broken homes.
BY :. BAMIDELE AYOBAMI LUMAN
*TALKING PEN*
The creator of body and soul has blessed us with a life partner which is supposed to be cared for and pampered like a baby.
Are women in the society being catered for and do men of nowadays show them love ?
Women suppose to serve as torch which all men use in lightening their way when darkness occurs.
Studies has shown that most women in the society lose their respect and dignity when they get married.
Most women of nowadays remain in a marriage for the sake of protecting the future and life of their offsprings.
In some marriages, both husband and wife have not fully enjoyed their marriage even for a second. What's the essence of a relationship you don't show love and care to each other? Of what use is a marriage where peace doesn't reign in the family? Such is a great calamity that has befallen many relationships today.
On a good day, you decided to have her as your wife, to build a home with you and care for your children. When she has not given you an answer to what you want from her, you promised her a brighter future. You swore that your love for her is for better for worse but most men forget all this after marriage.
When you marry her for the sake of beauty, beauty will one day fade. It's love that is required to make a happy home. Let your children be proud of you as a father. Let him proudly say he was fortunate to be happily raised by the best dad in the world like Messi and Ronaldo, winning all the trophies, making victory and representing their country well in any football league .
In our society, women are to be handled with care. The society should know that women are examples of good products and packages.
The question is "Are they handled well in our society of today?" She's your wife, to whom you suppose to be like a life support machine; whom you should respect and protect her dignity.
Are you playing your role in the family as a good husband?
You beat her whenever she wrongs you and you expect her to love you more.
Every woman deserves to have a right in every marriage. They are Nation Builders and Bricklayers that build the home. They are interior and exterior designers that design the future of a child, yet they are being maltreated like a slave. Some have even been turned to housemaids (not house wives anymore).
Most women have been in abusive marriages for a very long time; they are not happily married.
Some marital problems are due to lack of trust and understanding between the couples.
It's high time for ladies to knew their men better before getting married to them. Try to know a man very well before choosing him as your husband.
Don't love him because of his wealth. Instead, go into relationship because you want him to stay with you forever.
Not all wealthy homes are peaceful. Every beauty is subjected to fade as every glittering iron is subjected to rust.
Most men of nowadays go into relationships because of beauty; without considering her behavior and personality which is very bad.
However, let us overlook each other's shortcomings because there is no perfect relationship. "I am sorry" is a simple statement which rebuilds a relationship.
Couples should live as one. They should also live a life of good example for their children. They should have absolute support for each other; respect each other's decisions and opinions.
If all this is done, it will definitely put an end to issues surrounding broken homes.
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